One of the things that he said really really touch me for fore when he's discharged from hospital and care for him those at this vigil struggled to come to terms with space to grieve I know it's going to take a long time and I feel connection to the wick MinGa family some only briefly my daughter played with their kids a lot at the temple where they were all playing together so it's really hard to see that this happened we're just a few houses down from from where where happened and um it's been weighing heavy on a lot of Us and I it's tough to be able to find an outlet to kids went through to me is the hardest thing to be honest and I have young kids I'm very upset since I've seen this uh this news and can't sleep a solemn moment a time for reflection and fellowship at a community Park just I think next few days they they can come here so that's what we are expecting 300 telephone calls from all over Canada and England Europe and and from Sri Lanka everybody is helping us By-by n