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Girlfriends: Season 3

25 episodes Premiered Sep 23, 2002 Updated Oct 20, 2026

During the third season of Girlfriends, close friends Joan, Toni, Maya, and Lynn face exes and woes that test them as they deal with marital, financial, and emotional drama. As a friend group of Black women, they navigate life's tests and triumphs together, supporting each other through dating, divorce, friends, family, and relationships despite their differing backgrounds. The series looks at the lives, loves, and l

Previously on Girlfriends

Season 3 Lore Primer

Key plot threads, lore context, and character stakes you need to remember before diving into this season.

  • ⚡ The series focuses on a friend group of Black women named Joan, Toni, Maya, and Lynn.
  • ⚡ The four women come from differing backgrounds and support each other through life's tests and triumphs.
  • ⚡ Their experiences encompass dating, divorce, friends, family, and relationships.
  • ⚡ The show explores the lives, loves, and losses of the four different women.
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Season overview

During the third season of Girlfriends, close friends Joan, Toni, Maya, and Lynn face exes and woes that test them as they deal with marital, financial, and emotional drama. As a friend group of Black women, they navigate life's tests and triumphs together, supporting each other through dating, divorce, friends, family, and relationships despite their differing backgrounds. The series looks at the lives, loves, and losses of these four different women, capturing their experiences as they confront various personal challenges.

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Season 3 Episodes

Episode Guide

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Season 3: Filler vs. Essential Canon

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S3·E1 Mytharc

Coming to Terms

Sep 23, 2002 · 21 min

Joan fears she has hit an all-time low after she holds a ""Bring Your Ex"" party, but doesn't get a single phone number. She eventually winds up swearing off men to train for a ma

S3·E2 Core

Getting Our Acts Together

Sep 30, 2002 · 21 min

Maya and Darnell seek marriage counseling from their minister. They find the counseling pointless, but engage in an afternoon tryst that has an overly enthusiastic Maya convinced

S3·E3 Mytharc

Secrets and Eyes

Oct 7, 2002 · 21 min

Toni objects when Joan plans a birthday party for her. In the midst of their argument, Toni inadvertently reveals that she has been lying about her age for years. Joan and compan

S3·E4 Core

Star Craving Mad

Oct 14, 2002 · 21 min

Joan has several run-ins with an actor at the gym, but finds herself attracted to him. However, she re-considers her decision to date Ellis after discovering that he has lied to h

S3·E5 Core

Don't Leave Me a Loan

Oct 21, 2002 · 21 min

After Lynn's unpaid loan has a negative effect on their credit, Lynn's parents pressure her to get a job and pay them back. Lynn's friends ""help"" her prepare for her interviews-

S3·E6 Core

Invasion of the Gold Digger

Oct 28, 2002 · 21 min

The girls instantly detest William's demanding girlfriend, Monica. Joan in particular is up in arms after Monica convinces William to renege on a promise to make her co-counsel fo

S3·E7 Core

Blinded by the Lights

Nov 4, 2002 · 21 min

Joan is excited when Ellis invites her to the premiere of his new movie, but he refuses to let her walk the red carpet with him (or sit with him at the film) because he wants to pr

S3·E8 Core

Handling Baggage

Nov 11, 2002 · 21 min

Maya's cousin Ronnie and his boyfriend, Peaches, tell Maya that they have spotted Darnell in a compromising position with a woman at the Red Lobster. It is the same woman that Joa

S3·E9 Core

The Mommy Returns

Nov 18, 2002 · 21 min

Lynn meets her biological mother, Sandy, who suddenly appears at Joan's house. Although the two initially become friends, Lynn soon becomes embarrassed by some of Sandy's behavior

S3·E10 Core

A Little Romance

Nov 25, 2002 · 21 min

Toni realizes she has fallen for Todd after he protects her during an altercation with a man on the street, but is still reluctant to date him because of his size. Joan is appalle

S3·E11 Core

Santa v. Monica

Dec 16, 2002 · 21 min

William agrees to dress as Santa Claus on Christmas Eve in the hopes of restoring Jabari's belief in Santa (something that seems to concern Joan just a little too much). However,

S3·E12 Core

Take This Poem and Call Me in the Morning

Jan 6, 2003 · 21 min

Lynn finds herself extremely attracted to a poet, and is stunned to learn that he has been celibate for five years. Ellis refuses to leave the house after fans on the Internet tra

S3·E13 Core

Howdy Partner

Jan 7, 2003 · 21 min

Joan and William vie for a senior partner position, and are shocked when the firm instead brings in an outsider, Sharon Upton Farley. They plan to demonstrate their outrage by wal

S3·E14 Core

Single Mama Drama

Feb 3, 2003 · 21 min

Maya befriends a fellow single mother, a janitor at the law firm's building. They quickly make a connection, but Joan finds the woman's attitude irritating; and fears that her exa

S3·E15 Core

Happy Valentine's Day...Baby?

Feb 10, 2003 · 21 min

Ellis goes all out to give Joan a magical Valentine's Day, but the couple's future is put in jeopardy when he learns that his ex-girlfriend is about to have their child. Toni find

S3·E16 Core

Sex, Lies and Books

Feb 17, 2003 · 21 min

Maya becomes depressed and lonely after moving into a new apartment, despite the presence of a handsome and friendly neighbor. Toni and Todd take her on a double date with a frien

S3·E17 Core

A Stiff Good Man Is Easy to Find

Feb 24, 2003 · 21 min

Toni and Todd's relationship is thrown into flux after she inadvertently mentions marriage. When Toni goes into hiding, Todd seeks the assistance of her friends, who convince him

S3·E18 Core

Runaway Bridesmaid

Feb 24, 2003 · 21 min

Joan becomes jealous over Toni's engagement, and takes out all her frustration on Ellis, whom she begins blaming for all of her problems. She also resumes training for the Los Ang

S3·E19 Mytharc

The Pact

Mar 17, 2003 · 21 min

Lynn and Maya confront Joan about her jealousy and overall bad attitude regarding Toni's wedding. Joan is upset when Toni announces that Reesie Jackson, her college roommate, is c

S3·E20 Mytharc

Where Everyone Knows My Name

Apr 21, 2003 · 21 min

Maya makes her friends feel guilty about leaving her alone as they spend time with their significant others. She convinces them to accompany her to a hangout in her old neighborho

S3·E21 Core

Too Much Sharin'

Apr 28, 2003 · 21 min

William and Sharon decide to continue their relationship, even after he re-joins the firm. Joan discovers that the two are together, and inadvertently blabs about it to Sharon in

S3·E22 Core

Blood Is Thicker Than Liquor

May 5, 2003 · 21 min

Toni's family comes to town, and Toni worries that her mother will embarrass her in front of Todd's parents by voicing her objections to their Jewish background. Mrs. Childs becom

S3·E23 Core

The Fast Track & the Furious

May 12, 2003 · 21 min

Lynn persuades Toni to accompany her to Virginia, where she seeks Sandy's help before a presentation aimed at receiving a grant for her AIDS documentary. During the visit, Lynn me

S3·E24 Mytharc

The Wedding: Part 1

May 19, 2003 · 21 min

Joan promises to support Toni as the wedding approaches, but repeatedly neglects her in order to deal with her latest drama involving Ellis, who has failed to tell her that the mot

S3·E25 Mytharc

The Wedding: Part 2

May 19, 2003 · 21 min

Joan tries desperately to get Toni to forgive her and allow her to be a bridesmaid. However, it remains to be seen if there will even be a wedding, as Todd walks out on Toni becau

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